Sex Dictionary

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A Spot - An erogenous zone located in the anus near the prostate.

Abuck - An anal intercourse position where the recipient lies on their back with their knees touching their shoulders.

Afterplay - Term used to refer to intimacies and sexual interactions that take place after the climax of sexual activity.

Agate - Small penis.

Agoraphilia - Arousal from having sex in public places.

Analingus - Kissing or penetrating the anus with the tongue.

Axiliary Intercourse - Sexual climax achieved by moving the erect penis back and forth in the armpit.

Bartholin - A gland located near the vaginal opening. During sexual arousal it produces secretions which provide some lubrication.

BDSM - A form of sex play or role-play which combines Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS) and Sadomasochism (SM)

Ben-Wa Balls - A pair of balls - usually encapsulated by a plastic or ceramic coating. The balls are intended to be placed inside the vagina where they create pleasurable sensations by gently knocking against each other.

Bi Curious - A term for someone who is curious about or willing to experiment with bisexual activities.

Bisexual - An individual who is romantically or sexually attracted to people of both genders.

Blow Job - Slang for performing oral sex on the genitals of a male.

Camel Toe - A vagina that is seen clearly through tight clothing.

Cat Fighting - Women fighting without rules and often tearing off each other's clothing.

Chastity Belt - A belt worn to prevent access to the genitals, specifically to prevent sexual intercourse.

Cherry - An intact hymen. To "pop someone's cherry" is to take their virginity.

Climax - The point at which orgasm is achieved.

Cumshot - The act of ejaculation.

Daisy Chain - Sexual activities in which several people are stimulating each other's genitals simultaneously.

Deep Throat - Slang for inserting the penis down one's throat during fellatio. Particularly when the recipient is able to take the whole length.

Deflower - For a man to have sexual intercourse with a virgin woman.

Dildo - A sex toy, usually made of silicone, rubber or jelly, which is used to enhance sexual pleasure by insertion into the vagina or anus.

Doggy Style - Sexual intercourse where the male penetrates the female from behind while she's on all fours.

Dry Humping - Slang for simulating intercourse by rubbing up against a partner while fully clothed.

Eat Out / Eating Out - Slang for vaginal oral sex.

Enema - Injecting fluid into the anus to flush the lower intestines. That might be done in preparation for anal intercourse, or somebody might take sexual pleasure from the enema itself.

Erogenous Zone - Any area of the body that when stimulated creates positive sexual sensations. Common erogenous zones include the genitals, breasts, nipples, and anus.

Face Sitting - The practice of a woman sitting on a man's face, smothering him.

Fake Orgasm - Pretending to have an orgasm in order to satisfy a partner.

Fellatio - The act of kissing, licking, or sucking the male genitals with the lips and tongue.

Fetish - A strong sexual interest in or obsession with some object, body part, or activity. For example, a foot fetish or a rubber fetish. Is also often used to describe any kind of non-traditional sex, like BDSM.

Finger Fuck - Slang for female masturbation or inserting one's fingers into the vagina.

Foot Job - Rubbing the penis with the feet until ejaculation.

G-Spot - Synonym for the Grafenberg Spot, which is located in the upper wall of the vagina and is reported to be particularly pleasurable when stimulated.

Gimp - BDSM term for a sex slave dressed in leather.

Golden Shower - A form of sex play where one person urinates on their partner.

Hand Job - Slang for stimulating the genitals of a partner with your hands.

Honey Pot - Slang for vagina.

In the Closet - Often pertaining to one's sexuality or sexual preference. A state of privacy or secrecy.

Infantilism - A fetish practice where an adult role-plays being an infant, wearing baby clothing and sometimes being disciplined by a mother figure.

Jack Off / Jacking Off - Slang for masturbation, usually referring to a male.

Juice - Slang for the natural vaginal lubrication produced by a sexually aroused female.

Knockers - Slang for breasts.

KY Jelly - A water soluble lubricant, often used during sexual activity.

Labia - The external folds of skin that make up the outer portion of the vagina.

Lady's Best Friend - Slang for a dildo or vibrator.

Lap Dance - A form of adult entertainment where a woman dances provocatively in the "lap" of a customer, often while wearing little or no clothing.

Maidenhead - Virginity. The Hymen.

Master - The person in control during S&M or B&D role-play.

Masturbation Aid - Any object, usually a sex toy, that can be used during masturbation.

Menage a Trois - When three people have sex together at once. A threesome.

MILF - Abbreviation for "mother I'd like to fuck". A sexually attractive middle-aged woman.

Muff - Slang for vagina.

Multiple Orgasm - Having more than one orgasm in a single sex session, especially in rapid succession. Usually experienced by women.

Nookie - Slang for sexual activity.

Nymphomaniac - Slang for a woman who desires frequent sex or sex with many different partners.

O face - The facial expression of someone when having an orgasm.

Open Relationship - The term for a relationship in which both partners have agreed to date or have sex with other people.

Oral Sex - The act of stimulating the genitals with the tongue, lips or mouth.

Orgasm - A discharge of neuromuscular tension at the peak of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female.

Orgy - A sexual encounter with three or more people. Group sex.

Pecker - Slang for the penis.

Pet the Pussy - Slang for female masturbation.

Phone Sex - Talking dirty, and/or the act of mutual masturbation or fondling while talking on the telephone.

Pocket Pal - A small sex toy shaped like a vagina that is used in male masturbation.

Pre-Ejaculate - The liquid that is emitted by the penis before ejaculation.

Prince Albert - A ring for genital piercing which is passed through the glans of the penis into the urethra, just above the frenum.

Quickie - A brief and quick sexual encounter.

Rainbow Sex - Performing oral sex on a woman while she is menstruating.

Rim / Rimming - Slang for licking or penetrating the anus with the tongue.

Russian - Slang for thrusting the penis between a woman's breasts, simulating intercourse.

Safe Word - A certain word, used in BDSM activity, which means that the current activity must stop.

Shlong - Slang for a large penis.

Snowblowing - Kissing your partner after they ejaculate in your mouth, without expelling the semen. Also used about performing oral sex on a man with ice cubes in your mouth.

Submissive - The person who is dominated in a BDSM relationship.

Tea Bagging - The act of placing the testicles in the mouth of a partner.

Tit Fuck / Tittie Fuck - Slang for placing the penis in the cleavage of a woman's breasts and thrusting, mimicking intercourse.

Voyeur - An individual who gets sexual gratification from watching other people perform sexual acts.

Vulva - The external part of a woman's genitals, including the Labia Majora, Labia Minora and Clitoris.

Wham-Bam - Quick sexual encounter.

Zelophile - A person who is sexually excited by their partner's jealousy.